Is my fault and I'm sorry

Everyone has their own set of story to tell when it comes to relationship but not all has a happy ending. Is sad to know that all the effort and attention contributed into a relationship that doesn’t bloom at the end, this is the risk that everyone will need to take. As what they used to say "No pain no gain" is all about the level of pain to built a stronger relationship but if a wrong turn is made everything will turn into chaos. How do we build a strong and lasting relationship? I don't know the answer to this question but what I know is that, everything happens for a reason. I remember there was once my boss used to tell me this "If anything happen do not point finger to others but point it to yourself and said is my fault" I find this very meaningful as you don't blame others for all wrong doing but you yourself do need to take responsibility to the problem occur. I guess this is the one of the leadership factor a leader should have. This can be apply into a relationship too if you know the true meaning to it. Ask yourself if you are on the right side before engaging yourself in a battle or a fight because you will be badly beaten by your opponent if you don't have your fact right. But off course there are people that have the mentality of a naive child who always think their right in every way. This is what I called Brainless....Save your relationship for not being selfish and earn your respect by the others.