Get over it please.

Had a few drinks with 2 emo guys. One just got betrayed in a relationship and the other still recovering from a heart broken relationship. I did advised them but I couldn't even advise myself to let it go. I'm the one should let it go. I know for the fucking facts that's no point for me to hold on because it will never happen even how hard I stand and believing it will turn out good. Even santa unable to work his magic. I'm the one should be letting go and why am I still not? I really need to let go and I have valid reason of doing so. Is never my fault at the first place. I'm The fucking victim to it. If anyone going to feel guilty about it, is never me. But why am I putting the blame and burden to myself while she is not. I really making myself suffered. In Chinese is called Lo lei zien. If I stab myself with a knife will it take away the pain? I rather feel the pain of stabbing myself than to feel the pain of what's hurting me everyday. Just put it to rest and everything will be fine in time.